罗振宇讲过自己的经历,年轻时他也曾觉得,婚姻真没意思,一度不想踏入婚姻。
直到有天在海边遇到一个老人,老人刚生过一场大病,身体还很虚弱。谈到婚姻时,老人说。“到我这个年纪,你以为婚姻还意味着什么财富、条件吗?并不是。是我午夜三点醒来的时候,我口渴,我伤口疼,我只要捅捅身边,老太太就知道,我这个时候要喝水。就这一口水,你说多贵?如果没有几十年经营出来的婚姻,我这时候上哪要这口昂贵的水。“LuoZhenyutoldhisownexperience,whenhewasyoung,healsofeltthatmarriagewasreallyboring,oncedidnotwanttostepintomarriage.
Untilonedayattheseasidemetanoldman,theoldmanhadjusthadaseriousillness,thebodyisstillveryweak.Speakingofmarriage,theoldmansaid."Atmyage,doyouthinkmarriagestillmeanswhatwealth,conditions?"Notreally.It'swhenIwakeupat3:00inthemiddleofthenight,andI'mthirsty,andmywoundshurt,andallIhavetodoistouchmyside,andtheoldladyknowsthatIneedwateratthistime.Howmuchdoyouthinkthiswatercosts?IfIdon'thavedecadesofmarriage,Idon'tneedthisexpensivewater."